Jesse Laird and Nancy Priest’s Family
This page describes the families, and briefly the lives, of Jesse Laird’s six children with his second wife Nancy Priest. Jesse Laird was born on May 1, 1789 in Donegal, Ireland and died on November 12, 1865 in Dearborn County, Indiana. He immigrated with his mother and siblings – joining his father who had come over a few years earlier as an indentured servant – to Washington County, Pennsylvania. The story of the immigration is contained in the Washington County biography of Jesse’s nephew - which is on the cover page of the Laird section on this site.
Jesse was married twice – first in 1807 in Pennsylvania to Mary Tharp, who was born about 1793 in Pennsylvania and died on May 4, 1837 in Dearborn County, Indiana. They had eleven children, and those eleven children and their families are detailed in the second Jesse Laird page on this website.
Jesse was married second to Nancy Priest, daughter of Obediah Priest and Rebecca Winters, on January 16, 1838 in Dearborn County. They had six children. Nancy was born between 1807-1810 in Dearborn County, Indiana and died on April 21, 1873 in Vermilion County, Illinois. This page includes the information on each of the six children of Jesse and Nancy - including my own great-great-grandfather Joseph Laird. The youngest child was (Aaron) Frank Laird, a Danville Illinois police captain - shown above in a photo from the 1890’s.
I have concluded, based on the information below and my own research, that of Jesse and Nancy’s six children - three died in or around Dearborn County, and the three who survived to adulthood all moved to Vermilion County, Illinois with their widowed mother.
Of the three who died in or near Dearborn County, one child - Nancy - died before the 1860 census. Henry Clay Laird died in that year. And a third child, Elizabeth, was alive at the time of her father’s probate, appears to have married Matthew J. Day in Dearborn County in 1866 - but he remarried Elizabeth Fast in 1869, indicating Elizabeth Laird’s death by that year. It is possible she died in nearby Cincinnati, but there is no record of her death - just a possible burial of someone there by her name in 1868.
When Nancy Laird, the widow of Jesse, moved to Illinois ca 1869 with her three surviving sons, there was an added wild card, in that there was a child born ca 1860 with them - listed in Nancy’s probate as her grandchild. My father’s cousin Bill Laird suspected that this child was likely the child of Nancy Laird Jr., who died before the 1860 census. This was before we knew conclusively that Elizabeth Laird (Day) had died before Nancy and the three sons went to Vermilion County, Illinois before the 1870 census. I now suspect that this child was the daughter of Elizabeth Laird prior to her marriage. That child was named Katie Laird, and I will include a section on her following the six children of Jesse and Nancy - including a longer discussion on which child of Nancy was likely her parent.
Jesse Laird and Nancy Priest Laird had six known children, and they are listed below in chronological order - with an image from their life; a brief description of their life; and a listing of their children.
Martha Elizabeth Laird - Matthew Day
1) Martha Elizabeth Laird - the oldest child of Jesse and Nancy, born about 1840 in Dearborn County, died between 1866 and 1869; married on January 27, 1866 in Dearborn County, Indiana, to Matthew James Day, born about 1844 in Dearborn County, Indiana and died in 1925. No known children from this marriage. The one place Elizabeth’s named was listed as “Martha Elizabeth” was in her father Jesse Laird’s 1865 will. She is listed as Elizabeth in all other records. [I believe there is a possibility that Elizabeth had a child before she was married. This is explained at the end of this page in the description of Kate Laird (Pratt). I have attached Kate to Elizabeth in my family records file - but the parentage is not conclusive.]
The facts about Elizabeth’s life are circumstantial, and I had long been confused about her life - because she married her husband Matthew in January 1866 in Dearborn County, and a woman named Elizabeth was with Matthew in future records over the next decades. However, her husband Matthew married a second time in 1869, to another woman named Elizabeth. This indicates that Elizabeth Laird Day died sometime in those three years between the two marriages. Elizabeth Laird’s mother Nancy died in 1873 in Illinois, and probate documents list her three sons as the only surviving children of Nancy at that tine. For many years, I thought the second Elizabeth was our Elizabeth, but these other facts prove that incorrect and explain why she was not listed in Nancy’s 1873 probate.
Nancy is shown with her parents in the 1850 census at age ten and in the 1860 census at age twenty. She is listed in her father’s probate ca 1865 as Martha Elizabeth Laird. Matthew is shown in the 1860 census at age 16, listed with the Nevitt family very close to where the Lairds lived. Matthew and Elizabeth married in Dearborn County in January 1866, weeks after Jesse Laird died, when Elizabeth was about twenty-two years of age.
Matthew remarried Elizabeth East on March 31, 1869 in Hamilton County, Ohio, and they had two daughters. There is a Find-A-Grave record for Elizabeth Day in Hamilton County, Ohio, showing a death date of November 15, 1868 - which would fit our Elizabeth - daughter of Jesse and Nancy - in the right period between the two marriages for Matthew. However, the cemetery is a Catholic Cemetery, Saint Joseph, and there is no birth year or other identifying information that would prove that this was our Elizabeth.
However, it is clear our Elizabeth died in this period. I always wondered why all living children of Jesse and Nancy went with Nancy to Vermilion County, Illinois ca 1869 and this Elizabeth stayed behind. It was because she had died by this time. I have posted some relevant documents below - the 1869 marriage record of Matthew and Elizabeth East; the census listing for Matthew and Elizabeth (East) Day in 1900; the death record for Ethyl Day (Syford) in Dearborn County in 1933 that shows her mother as Elizabeth East; and a July 31, 1879 Lawrenceburg Register clipping that shows Matthew Day of Cincinnati visits old friends in Lawrenceburg Township. I do not have the actual 1866 marriage record for Elizabeth Laird and Matthew Day. I will post that if I obtain it.